Your mom calls on Sunday and asks why you didn't bring the kids over again. You both know the answer. The last time, she screamed at your four-year-old for spilling juice, the same way she used to scream at you. Now your aunt is texting you about how hurt your mom is, and you're sitting in your car wondering if you're the problem.
If that sounds like your life, there's a name for the role you're in. A cycle breaker is someone who recognizes a harmful pattern that's been passed down in their family, like yelling or going silent for days, and chooses to stop it with them. In this post, we'll cover the signs you might be a cycle breaker and how to keep going when your family pushes back.
























